The last one.

There's something about knowing a kid is your last that forces you to savor each moment, to drink up that baby smell, shower him with extra kisses, read one more story, hold him just a bit longer.  Yes, Jack is spoiled, though that term is a misnomer.  Who can blame any parent for enjoying her baby to the fullest?  And how can that much love and attention be detrimental?  It's not, plain and simple.  We all adore this little man.